Them: “What if it goes to someone undeserving? Someone who hasn’t earned it? Me: “Who am I to keep someone from grace, from help, from the table?” The “rule” of my denomination that I break most often and most fragrantly regards Holy Communion. In the guidelines about the “means of grace” (ways God is revealed to us), pastors are instructed to offer communion to baptized individuals (regardless of age). The pertinent documents declare that “there is no sin” if an unbaptized person is to receive communion, but to begin withholding the sacrament until there is understanding and baptism. No. Firstly, I do not believe in hierarchy among the (two) sacraments. Communion is not *more* sacred than baptism. If both are the work of God, then who am I to say that one must be held back until the other can occur. God washes, welcomes, and feeds. It is a gift to be part of that work. It feels like a risky business to withhold the gifts of God based on my own judgment a...
Many years ago, I spent a few nights in a hostel on the outer edge of Edinburgh, Scotland. I was there alone, but had a great time exploring the city by day and then resting in my little cubby in a shared room at night. On my third or fourth night, an alarm went off in the building. I got up, grabbed my purse, put on shoes, and immediately went out the nearest exit, heading down to the bank of the small river behind the building. I waited at the far end of the lawn, alone for several minutes before the alarm stopped sounding. No one else came out at all. When I walked around the front of the building and was let back inside, I asked what happened. “Oh, the alarm does that sometimes,” I was told. “It’s no big deal.” I was confused, “But what would have happened if there had been a problem?” I was assured that everything would have been fine. There was nothing to worry about. Just go back to sleep. While this probably seemed like nothing to them, it was a big deal to me. I was only ...